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⚠️ Important: Social Security Doesn't Track Your Relationships

Social Security does NOT automatically know about your marriages, divorces, deceased spouses, and ex-spouses. You must inform them about these relationships to receive spousal, ex-spouse, or survivor benefits. Many people miss out on benefits because they assume Social Security will contact them — but Social Security only knows what you tell them.

👉 Action: Call 1-800-772-1213 and tell them about all your current and past marriages.

⚡ Quick Summary

  • 40 credits = your own benefits — but you may qualify through a spouse with fewer
  • Spousal and ex-spousal benefits = up to 50% of your spouse's or former spouse's full benefit
  • Survivor benefits = up to 100% of the deceased spouse's benefit (from being widowed or ex-spouse passing away)
  • You receive only ONE benefit — the highest one you qualify for (they don't stack)
  • Only 6 months retroactive — contact Social Security now to avoid losing money
  • Get another tune-up anytime — when your situation changes (marriage, divorce, death of a spouse or ex-spouse)
  • Call 1-800-772-1213 — Social Security Administration

🎉 WEP/GPO Repeal (January 2025)

If you worked for a government employer that had its own pension system instead of Social Security (teachers, police, firefighters, state/city employees), you were previously affected by:

  • WEP (Windfall Elimination Provision) — reduced your own Social Security retirement benefits
  • GPO (Government Pension Offset) — reduced or eliminated your spousal/survivor benefits

As of January 6, 2025, these provisions have been repealed! You may now qualify for full benefits that were previously blocked or reduced.

How to Check Your Social Security Credits

To qualify for your own Social Security retirement benefit, you need at least 40 work credits (approximately 10 years of SS-covered employment).

Option 1: Online (Fastest)

  1. Go to ssa.gov/myaccount
  2. Create an account or sign in
  3. View your Social Security Statement
  4. Look for "Your Estimated Benefits" and total credits earned

Option 2: By Phone

  1. Call 1-800-772-1213 (TTY: 1-800-325-0778)
  2. Hours: Monday–Friday, 8:00 AM – 7:00 PM local time
  3. Ask for: "A copy of my Social Security Statement showing total credits earned"
  4. They'll mail you your full record (earnings, credits, and projected benefits)
Tip: If you've changed your name (marriage, divorce), make sure Social Security has your current legal name on file. Mismatched names can cause delays.

Contact Social Security

📞 By Phone

1-800-772-1213

TTY: 1-800-325-0778

Mon–Fri, 8 AM – 7 PM local time

💻 Online

ssa.gov

Create a my Social Security account

🏢 In Person

Find Your Local Office

Schedule an appointment online first

What to Have Ready

  • Your Social Security number and the Social Security numbers of your spouse or former spouse (if applicable)
  • Date and place of birth
  • Marriage certificate(s) and divorce decrees (if applicable)
  • Death certificate(s) of spouse or ex-spouse (if applicable)
  • Your most recent Social Security Statement
  • Information about any pensions you receive

Official Resources

These are the official sources for information about Social Security benefits. Use these to verify information and get personalized guidance.

Frequently Asked Questions

What was the WEP/GPO and why did it affect government employees?

The Windfall Elimination Provision (WEP) reduced Social Security retirement benefits for people who also received a pension from work not covered by Social Security.

The Government Pension Offset (GPO) reduced Social Security spousal or survivor benefits by two-thirds of your government pension amount.

As of January 6, 2025, these provisions have been repealed under the Social Security Fairness Act, meaning you may now be eligible for full Social Security benefits that were previously reduced or eliminated.

Do I need 40 credits to receive any Social Security benefit?

You need 40 credits to qualify for benefits based on your own work record. However, you may still qualify for spousal or survivor benefits based on a spouse's or former spouse's record, even if you have 0 work credits yourself.

Can I receive benefits from an ex-spouse?

If your ex-spouse is LIVING:

  • Your marriage lasted at least 10 years
  • You are currently unmarried (remarriage at any age stops this benefit until that marriage ends)
  • You are 62 or older
  • Your ex-spouse is eligible for Social Security (62+ with work credits)
  • 2-year rule: If divorced 2+ years, you can file even if your ex hasn't filed yet
  • SSDI exception: If your ex receives SSDI, you may qualify even if they're under 62

If your ex-spouse is DECEASED (survivor benefits):

  • Your marriage lasted at least 10 years
  • You are 60+ (50+ if disabled), or any age if caring for their child under 16 or disabled child
  • If you remarried after age 60 (50 if disabled), you can still receive survivor benefits while married
  • If you remarried before 60, you become eligible again when that marriage ends

What if your ex-spouse dies while you're remarried?

  • If you remarried after 60: You become eligible for survivor benefits (even if still married)
  • If you remarried before 60: You become eligible when that marriage ends

Good to know:

  • No cooperation needed — Your ex-spouse doesn't need to know or approve
  • Their benefit stays the same — Claiming doesn't reduce what they receive
  • Have their SSN if possible — It speeds up processing, but Social Security can look it up if you don't have it
Does remarriage affect my benefits?

It depends on the type of benefit:

  • Living divorced spouse benefits: Remarriage at any age stops this benefit until that marriage ends. Marrying after 60 does NOT help here—it only preserves survivor benefits.
  • Survivor benefits (deceased spouse/ex-spouse): Remarriage after age 60 (50 if disabled) does NOT affect eligibility. If you remarried before 60, you become eligible again when that marriage ends.
  • Child-in-care benefits: Remarriage at any age ends these benefits until the marriage ends.

Important: If your ex-spouse dies while you're remarried, you may transition to survivor benefits:

  • If you remarried after 60 (50 if disabled): You're eligible for survivor benefits even while still married
  • If you remarried before 60: You become eligible when that marriage ends
Can I receive more than one benefit at a time?

No. Social Security pays you the highest single benefit you qualify for. Benefits do not "stack" or combine. However, you may switch to a different benefit if a higher one becomes available later (for example, when a spouse passes away).

How far back can Social Security pay me?

Generally, Social Security can only pay up to 6 months of retroactive benefits. This is why it's important to contact them as soon as possible—every month you wait could mean losing benefits you're entitled to.

What if my deceased spouse died before earning 40 credits?

If your spouse died before age 52, they may have qualified with fewer credits. The younger a person is when they die, the fewer credits they need. Contact Social Security to verify—don't assume they weren't eligible.

What's the difference between spousal and survivor benefits?

Spousal benefits (spouse is living):

  • Up to 50% of your spouse's full benefit
  • Available at age 62 (or any age with qualifying child)
  • Your spouse must be receiving benefits

Survivor benefits (spouse or ex-spouse is deceased):

  • Up to 100% of the deceased's full benefit
  • Available at age 60 (or 50 if disabled, or any age with qualifying child)
  • Marriage must have lasted at least 9 months (exceptions apply)
Does common-law marriage count for Social Security benefits?

Common-law marriage is not nationwide — only a handful of states allow or recognize it.

In states that do, a couple must agree to be married, live together, and present themselves publicly as married (no ceremony or license required). If valid under state law, the Social Security Administration treats it exactly like a formal marriage for spousal and survivor benefits.

As of 2025, states that recognize new common-law marriages include:

Colorado, Iowa, Kansas, Montana, Oklahoma, Rhode Island, South Carolina, Texas, Utah, and the District of Columbia.

Other states may recognize old common-law marriages or ones formed in states where it's legal, but do not allow new ones to be created.

What if we divorced and remarried each other?

If the same couple divorced before being married for ten years and then remarried, it does not count as the same marriage unless the remarriage occurred within the same or next calendar year of the divorce.

For example: If you divorced in November 2020 and remarried in March 2021 (next calendar year), Social Security would combine the marriages. But if you remarried in 2022 or later, they would be treated as separate marriages.

Do annulled marriages count?

Some annulled marriages count for Social Security purposes if the marriage lasted more than 10 years, depending on how and why the marriage was annulled.

If your marriage was annulled but lasted 10+ years, contact Social Security directly — you may still qualify for benefits based on that relationship.

Legal Disclaimer

We are not affiliated with the Social Security Administration (SSA), any government agency, or any political party. This site is non-partisan and purely educational.

This website is for educational and informational purposes only and does not constitute legal, tax, or financial advice. We've done our best to ensure accuracy based on current laws and regulations, but we make no representation that this website will provide 100% accurate information in every situation.

We do not collect, store, or transmit any personal information. All questionnaire data is processed locally in your browser and is not saved anywhere.

The Social Security Administration is the final authority on all benefit eligibility and amounts. Always verify information directly with Social Security before making financial decisions.

This website is based on Social Security laws and regulations in effect as of January 1, 2026.

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